So you hate things about LGBTQ+ people Now What How to be an LGBTQ+ Ally

So you hate things about LGBTQ+ people – Now What? How to be an LGBTQ+ Ally

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Got pet peeves about LGBTQ+ folks? Join the club! Think you don’t? Think again. So you hate things about LGBTQ+ people – Now What? How to be an LGBTQ+ Ally. There are things you hate regarding the loved ones in your life, right? How about within your social circle? Do any of your besties have habits that drive you nuts? Me, too – and that’s okay! We’ve all got quirks we can’t stand – even your BFF has that annoying habit of leaving their socks everywhere. Free yourself and just admit it!

This is my introductory post to a new series of “Dear Allie” letters, which are written to Allie the Ally Cat, who is a mascot for my newly named Etsy shop, Ally Cat Pride, which focuses on subtle pride products, rainbow-themed items, and Allie Cat Letters for LGBTQ+ life events and more! Allie Cat’s goal is to teach you how to be an LGBTQ+ ally!

I’m really excited about this new pivot in direction for my shop. I was already making pride products, but now that I have 3 LGBTQ+ children (all very much adults) – I saw a need for the LGBTQ+ community and was in a place to try to help. So now we start with the first Dear Allie letter and our first step about how to be an LGBTQ+ ally.

Dear Allie the Ally Cat

Dear Allie Cat,

I've been doing some soul-searching lately and stumbled upon a revelation. While I proudly declare my support for LGBTQ+ people, I realized there might be a discrepancy between my words and my inner feelings. It's like there's a misalignment, and I'm not sure how to bridge the gap. Am I a bad Person? What do I do about it? I don't know how to be an LGBTQ+ ally

Curious Cat 🐾✨
Dear Allie Cat Letters

Dear Allie Cat,

My name is Curious and my pronouns are fur/furself. I hope this message finds you basking in the warmth of your whiskers! I’ve been doing some soul-searching lately and stumbled upon a revelation. While I proudly declare my support for LGBTQ+ people, I realized there might be a discrepancy between my words and my inner feelings. It’s like there’s a misalignment, and I’m not sure how to bridge the gap. Am I a bad person? What should I do about it?

Looking forward to your wise and whimsical insights!

Best, Curious Cat 🐾✨

Dear Curious Cat,

Congratulations on your soul-searching adventure! My pronouns are purr/purrself. First of all, you are NOT a bad person – just the opposite! The fact that you recognize that your thoughts and actions differ is deserving of a medal! A lot of people choose to ignore the crappy cat inside themselves and let it sit in a box in the back of their head. You’ve got this.

Let’s do a little self-reflection, shall we? Saying you’re all rainbows and unicorns about LGBTQ+ matters – is it for real, or just because it’s the trendy thing to say? Maybe you’re keeping it hush-hush or fearing your own feelings on the matter?

Whatever your vibe, it’s cool. What matters is what you do next. Embrace the quirks, laugh at the craziness, and remember, we’re all a little fabulous in our own way! 🌈 #AcceptanceMatters

Navigating the rainbow road to LGBTQ+ acceptance can be as tricky as finding your cat’s favorite hiding spot. If you’ve grown up with more stereotypes than a sitcom marathon, fear not – you’re not alone.

Key Takeaways of How to be an LGBTQ+ Ally:

  • The first step to becoming an LGBTQ+ ally cat is acknowledging personal biases and stereotypes.
  • Allyship is crucial for promoting LGBTQ+ acceptance and creating a safe, inclusive environment.
  • Education and awareness play a significant role in building a more tolerant and diverse society.
  • Take actionable steps to engage with the LGBTQ+ community and provide support.
  • Advocate for LGBTQ+ rights and social justice, and support collective action to create a more inclusive community.
  • The best accounts to follow for doses of humor, life lessons, LGBTQ+ news and being an ally cat.

How to be an LGBTQ+ Ally: Admitting there is a problem

Step one? Admit there’s a puzzle to solve. Embracing the journey to allyship might feel like trying to herd cats, but trust me, it’s worth it. In this quirky guide, I’ve got your back with practical tips to ditch those old biases, be the rainbow in someone’s cloudy day, and champion the rights of our fabulous LGBTQ+ pals. 🌈 Let’s turn the world into a safe space, one sassy paw step at a time! #StoryofLori

How to be an LGBTQ+ Ally: Understanding LGBTQ+ Identities

Now that you have admitted that there is a problem, you need to correct that problem. Yes, it takes a little bit of work on your part, but it is totally worth it. You’ll be back to basking in rays of sunlight in no time.

Understanding LGBTQ+ Identity and Experiences to help you be an ally

Unlocking the Mysteries of LGBTQ+ Life – Let’s face it – not everyone’s got the 411 on the vibrant LGBTQ+ community and their incredible journeys. Ignorance breeds bias, and stereotypes just love to crash the party, making it hard to throw down the welcome scratching mat.

Dive into the rainbow of LGBTQ+ identities and experiences, my friends! It’s the secret tuna sauce for whipping up a culture of inclusivity and chasing stereotypes out like a mouse. Remember, gender and sexuality aren’t just binary categories and norms – they’re more like a wild mouse hunt with twists, turns, and trees to climb. Now, let’s talk about complexity.

How to be an LGBTQ+ Ally: The Complexity of LGBTQ+ Identities

We’re not just talking about your usual suspects – lesbians, gay men, bisexuals, transgender folks, queer souls, and intersex wonders make up this fantastic crew of cats. And guess what? Each subgroup (there are even furries!) brings its flair to the table, with unique experiences and outlooks.

Hold onto your collars, because we’re diving into the deep end of inclusivity! It’s time to grasp the concept of intersectionality – recognizing that our humans may face discrimination on multiple fronts, from race and religion to ability and social status. To make the world a more fabulous place, we need to pounce on those stereotypes until they are dead!

Buckle up for an uncomfortable but necessary adventure – challenging biases is the key to unlocking the door of LGBTQ+ acceptance. It’s time to do some soul-searching, kick those prejudices to the curb, and open our hearts to the incredible stories that surround us. Let’s flip the script and make inclusivity the headline act of “Ally Cats – The Musical!”🌈 #Loveiseverywhere

How to be an LGBTQ+ Ally
Respect People’s Pronouns

How to be an LGBTQ+ Ally: The Advocacy for Inclusivity

If we want to turn our spaces into welcoming havens for everyone, we’ve got to throw stereotypes out the window – they’re so last season’s flea collar.

Getting down to the sharp end of the claw, challenging and breaking stereotypes isn’t just a cool thing to do; it’s a crucial step in the dance of fostering inclusivity. Yeah, it might feel like trying to chase a laser light but trust me, it’s worth it.

Here’s the lowdown: Identifying and giving those biases a reality check can be a tad uncomfortable. Picture it as cleaning out your closet – you’ve got to face those skeletons. It’s about looking in the mirror, questioning your own beliefs, and being open to a crash course in understanding the experiences of others.

You are only facing skeletons – it’s nothing compared to living in a closet and coming out! Can you imagine how hard that has to be? Imagine a cat who thinks they are a dog and then suddenly gets a look at themselves in the mirror one day. Their insides don’t match their outsides and they are confused. It is called gender dysphoria.

So, tighten your shoelaces (or velcro – no judgment here!). We’re stepping into the realm of discomfort for the sake of LGBTQ+ acceptance. Let’s break down those barriers and allow acceptance to take center stage in our musical.

“In order to foster inclusivity, we need to recognize that everyone’s experiences are valid and that our differences should be celebrated.”

– LGBTQ+ Activist, Laverne Cox

How to be an LGBTQ+ Ally: The Importance of LGBTQ+ Understanding

Embarking on the LGBTQ+ knowledge train is a lifelong journey, my friends! It’s not a one-stop shop; it’s an ongoing adventure fueled by access to the right resources and a dash of education magic. Let’s make learning about LGBTQ+ identity and experiences as common as binge-watching cat videos – a daily dose of enlightenment.

Now, creating safe havens and platforms where our LGBTQ+ pals can spill the catnip on their experiences is non-negotiable. We need spaces where they feel like the stars of the show, heard, and wrapped in a cozy blanket of support (besides in The Ally Cats Musical…).

But hey, let’s not underestimate the power of small acts – they’re like LGBTQ+ kindness catnip! Using the correct pronouns and acknowledging preferred names might seem like tiny gestures, but they’re like a superhero cape in the world of support and respect. It’s the little things that make the rainbow shine brighter. Come on, Ally Cats, you got this! 👩🏻‍🎤

Kindness is free, sprinkle that stuff everywhere - dolly parton with gray and pink cats sprinkled on photo
Kindness is Free, Sprinkle That Stuff Everywhere ~ Dolly Parton, LGBt+ Icon

How to be an LGBTQ+ Ally: Breaking Stereotypes for Genuine Understanding

Let’s spill the milk on stereotypes – those oversimplified notions that cramp the fabulous style of our LGBTQ+ crew. They’re like fashion trends that need to be retired – harmful, limiting, and just not cutting it.

Here’s the scoop: Stereotypes create a fog of inaccuracies about the incredible experiences and identities within the LGBTQ+ community. It’s like trying to describe a masterpiece with stick-figure doodles – not doing justice to the real deal. How do you like it when someone calls you a lazy cat or even worse – a fat cat? It’s hurtful, isn’t it? I’m not fat…my metabolism just likes to lie in the sun too much!

Now, the ultimate game-changer? Ditch the stereotypes and dive into real conversations. The best way to break these bad boys is by getting to know the awesome individuals rocking the LGBTQ+ label. It’s all about building genuine understanding and respect – like swapping your favorite plushies with your besties but on a much deeper level. Let’s throw those stereotypes out like throwing the cat out with the bathwater and make room for authentic connections.

All LGBTQ+ individuals are promiscuous and have multiple partners.Just like our heterosexual counterparts, not every LGBTQ+ individual is out there juggling multiple relationships like some Tomcat! We’re rewriting the dating rules, one genuine connection at a time! Some of us are all about that committed, monogamous love story like O’Malley the Alley Cat!
Transgender people are confused and require treatment.Identifying as transgender is absolutely valid. Those rocking the transgender label deserve a standing ovation of respect and acceptance, not a spotlight of fixation or a misguided quest for a cure. Let’s celebrate individuality and ditch the outdated notions – acceptance is the real MVP!
Bisexuals are indecisive and confused.Bisexuality is a legit sexual orientation, a badge of identity proudly worn by those who groove to attractions across more than one gender. It’s not a fleeting phase or some confusing puzzle to unravel. Bisexuality is the real deal, and it’s time to embrace the diversity of love and attraction without any doubts.
LGBTQ+ Stereotypes

Breaking stereotypes and promoting inclusivity requires a continued effort to learn, unlearn, and relearn about LGBTQ+ identities and experiences. It is a journey that requires empathy, open-mindedness, and a willingness to challenge and break biases. Think of it as The Incredible Journey on the LGBTQ+ Highway!

LGBTQ+ Acronym
LGBTQ+ Acronym

How to be an LGBTQ+ Ally: The Importance of Allyship and LGBTQ+ Support

Allyship awareness and LGBTQ+ support are crucial in promoting diversity and creating safe spaces for LGBTQ+ individuals.

Time to Be the Change: Your active advocacy is like superhero-level work for the LGBTQ+ community. By standing up, speaking out, and waving the flag of acceptance, you’re on the front lines eradicating those pesky prejudices. Let’s pave the way for a world where acceptance and inclusivity are the norm – your efforts are pawsitively game-changers! 🌈 #ChangeTheWorld #InclusivityHero

Benefits of Allyship and LGBTQ+ SupportActions You Can Take
Promoting diversity: When you support LGBTQ+ individuals, you’re not just cheering; you’re throwing a full-blown 3 am zoomies party for their unique identities and experiences. Ally Up: Transform into an LGBTQ+ ally by diving deep into the sea of tuna, I mean, knowledge about LGBTQ+ issues. It’s like getting a PhD in compassion. Then, roll out the welcome mat like a VIP lounge – create a safe space that’s warmer than a cat nap by the heating vent.
Creating safe spaces: LGBTQ+ individuals often face discrimination and harassment in their daily lives. By creating safe spaces, you are providing a reprieve from negative experiences and fostering a sense of belonging. Everyone needs a cardboard box with their name on it. Attend LGBTQ+ events: Show your support by attending LGBTQ+ events such as Pride parades or rallies. This demonstrates allyship and exposes you to the community, allowing for greater understanding and education. Roar loud and proud!
Empowering individuals: Allies have the power to lift up individuals who have been marginalized and excluded. By empowering LGBTQ+ individuals, you are creating advocates for change and acceptance within the community.Speak up: Speak out and meow loudly against injustice and discrimination. Support LGBTQ+ individuals in your life, and use your platform to amplify their voices and experiences. Meow like you haven’t been fed in 5 minutes – LOUDLY.

By promoting allyship awareness and LGBTQ+ support, we can create a society that celebrates diversity and empowers individuals to be their authentic selves. Take action today and become an ally for change! A gathering of Ally Cats is a Pride and a pride of cats is louder than a single mew. #Allyship

Straight Ally Flag to Support LGBTQ+ people
Straight Ally Flag to Support LGBTQ+ People

How to be an LGBTQ+ Ally: Acknowledging Personal Bias and Overcoming Prejudice

Biases, Begone! Our personal biases can totally tint the way we see and purr with the LGBTQ+ community. Time for a reality check – remember that recognizing these biases is step one in the grand scheme of overcoming them. Don’t let inner pride stop you from your purr-sonal improvement!

Channel your inner superhero ( I like Catwoman) and dive into some introspection. Let’s claw the eyes out of out those hidden prejudices and bunny-feet them to the curb. It’s like cleaning out the litter box in your mind – make room for understanding, acceptance, and a whole lot of love!

Acknowledging and challenging internal biases requires commitment and conscious effort. Strategies to help:

Education and Self-EvaluationDelving into LGBTQ+ history, issues, and experiences is like unlocking a treasure trove of treats and understanding. It’s the ultimate mind-expansion journey that challenges preconceived notions like a boss cat. But hold up, there’s more: Self-reflection and evaluation are your trusty sidekicks in this adventure!
Active Listening and Open CommunicationListening and learning from LGBTQ+ individuals’ experiences and perspectives can help to foster empathy and understanding. Open communication can help to bridge gaps and challenge problematic beliefs.
Diversify Media ConsumptionConsuming media that features LGBTQ+ people can help to break stereotypes and challenge biases. Supporting LGBTQ+ creators and media can also help to promote diversity and inclusion.

Developing sensitivity towards the experiences and needs of the LGBTQ+ community is essential for promoting inclusivity and eradicating prejudice. Here are some tips to help:

  • Pronouns Matter: Respect is the name of the game – use the right pronouns and honor everyone’s gender identity like the rockstars they are.
  • Zip Those Lips: When it comes to someone’s sexual orientation, avoid turning into a detective. Let’s keep it classy and skip the invasive questions. Curiosity will kill the cat.
  • Celebrate Diversity: Just like a pride parade, life is more vibrant with diversity. Celebrate the uniqueness of each individual, and let your allyship be a cat cave for everyone’s authentic selves.
  • Lived and Validated: Acknowledge and validate the real talk of LGBTQ+ individuals – their purr-sonal experiences are like golden nuggets of wisdom.
  • Raise Your Voice: Don’t be a bystander. If you spot discriminatory behavior or hear language that’s just not groovy, speak up. Let’s create a world where everyone’s voice is heard, loud and clear! Don’t be a pussycat! Arch your back, hiss, spit, and be heard!
  • Amplify LGBTQ+ Voices: Pass the mic! Amplify the voices of the LGBTQ+ community. Share their stories, artwork, and achievements. Let the world hear the symphony of diverse voices.
  • Create Inclusive Spaces: Be the architect of inclusivity. Whether it’s at work, school, or your favorite cat club, advocate for spaces that welcome everyone, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity. It’s like crafting safe havens, one welcoming space at a time. 🌈

Recognize them, overcome them – it’s a journey of growth that’ll have you leveling up in empathy and breaking down those mental barriers. Ready for this cat-astic quest? Let’s embark on the ultimate exploration of knowledge and self-discovery!

The Mirror Reflects Who You Are Inside...Be the Fierce, Fabulous Cat Staring Back at You - kitten staring in mirror at tiger
The Mirror Reflects Who You Are Inside…Be the Fierce, Fabulous Cat Staring Back at You

Building a Tolerant Society: Education and Awareness

Education and awareness are crucial in the fight for LGBTQ+ acceptance. By providing inclusive education, creating LGBTQ+ safe spaces, and celebrating diversity, we can promote an environment of respect and inclusivity for all.

How to be an LGBTQ+ Ally: LGBTQ+ Education

Let’s Unleash the Power of Edu-cat-ion: Crafting a tolerant society is like building a masterpiece, and education is the brush that paints the canvas. When it comes to LGBTQ+ identities and experiences, accuracy and inclusivity are the secret ingredients. Here’s the playbook for making it happen:

  1. Curriculum Overhaul: Infuse LGBTQ+ history, stories, and perspectives into the curriculum. It’s time for education to reflect the kaleidoscope of all cat (and human) experiences.
  2. Teacher Training: Arm our educators with the knowledge and tools to foster LGBTQ+ inclusivity. When teacher cats shine, so do their kittens.
  3. Guest Speakers and Workshops: Bring in the experts – the queer cats! Let LGBTQ+ voices be heard through guest speakers and interactive workshops. It’s like adding a dash of real-world wisdom to the lesson plan.
  4. Safe Spaces: Design classrooms and schools as safe havens for all. Inclusivity should be woven into the very fabric of educational environments.

How to be an LGBTQ+ Ally: Creating LGBTQ+ Safe Spaces

Building Fortresses of Acceptance: Creating safe spaces is like constructing princess cat castles of love and understanding. Let’s turn those spaces into sanctuaries where LGBTQ+ individuals can kick off their shoes and be authentically themselves. Here’s the paw print for crafting these safe havens:

  • Visible Support: Hoist the rainbow flag high! Climb the curtains and let everyone know that your space is a haven for acceptance. Visible symbols speak volumes. Encourage businesses and public spaces to display LGBTQ+ symbols and flags
  • LGBTQ+ Community Centers: Where queer cats can access resources, support, and social events.
  • Zero Tolerance for Discrimination: Draw the line in the litter box – discrimination is not welcome here. Enforce policies that make it clear: everyone deserves respect.
  • Educational Initiatives: Knowledge is power. Offer LGBTQ+ sensitivity training at hospitals and community centers through workshops, seminars, and discussions, cat chats, & ‘Dear Allie’ letters to educate the community on LGBTQ+ issues. Understanding breeds acceptance and smarty cats!
  • Inclusive Policies: From bathroom signs to event protocols, ensure your policies reflect inclusivity. It’s like laying down the rules for a cat chase where everyone wins.

Let’s transform spaces into cozy cat beds where acceptance is the norm and discrimination is the odd cat out. Together, we can build a world where everyone feels the warm embrace of inclusivity (and human hugs).

Kia Kitty staring up and saying "hi can I be your friend?"
Hi, Can I Be Your Friend?

Safe spaces for LGBTQ+ People of all sizes & Colors

Having LGBTQ+ queer cats of my own, I saw that there was more need for safe spaces and subtle pride wear so people could express their colors without having to come out to family, if that isn’t possible. When my oldest daughter told me she was trans, my only question was: “Are you happy?” – because that is really all that matters to me.

Due to the need for the above, My human pivoted her Etsy shop from an emporium for all to focus on subtle pride products, pride products, ‘Dear Allie’ letters and mental health.

She is also pivoting this blog from mental health & special needs to LGBTQ+ & ally mental health – along with how to be LGBTQ+ friendly in your purr-sonal and purr-fessional life. I want to help her to teach other small businesses how to be an Ally Cat – without insulting all of the other cats along the way.

There is a lot of hate aimed at the LGBTQ+ community and I decided to counter some of that by helping through humor-infused ‘Dear Allie’ letters like this one. There will also be Letters from me -Allie Cat – to LGBTQ+ cats & humans to mark a life event, like a name change for a transgender person, etc. I’m super excited about these!

How to be an LGBTQ+ Ally: Promoting Diversity

Let the Celebration Begin: Let’s make our world a kaleidoscope of cat-ceptance where everyone’s uniqueness is not just recognized but celebrated. Here’s the grand plan for creating this inclusive cat-topia:

  • Events and Festivals: Throw catnip, & silly string, organize parades and host events that showcase the beauty of being a diversity kitty. Let’s turn every day into a celebration of the rich tapestry curtains of cat & human experiences.
  • Representation Matters: From boardrooms to shelters, to the big screen, ensure diverse voices are heard and seen. Representation isn’t just an ‘X’ where you pee to say you were there – it’s the heartbeat of true inclusivity. Keep marking your spot and other cats follow your lead! Advocate for policy and legislation that supports LGBTQ+ rights and promotes social justice and equity. Spread your diverse scent everywhere!
  • Cultural Exchange: Share stories, traditions, and experiences from different catwalks of life. It’s like a dumpster dive of cultures, creating a feast where everyone brings something unique to the table.
  • Equality in Opportunities: Level the playing field. Ensure that opportunities are not influenced by gender identity or sexual orientation. It’s time to make sure everyone has a paw at success.
  • Highlighting Everyone: We need more representation of LGBTQ+ cats from every corner to address issues in media and cat-entertainment – it has gotten much better – but we can still improve!

Let’s build a pride (group of cats) where diversity isn’t just acknowledged; it’s revered. An inclusive world where everybody, regardless of who they are or whom they love, feels valued and respected. It’s not just a dreamy cat nap; it’s the all-star zoomies party we’re all invited to.

Becoming an LGBTQ+ Ally: Actions and Engagement

To become a true ally cat to the LGBTQ+ pride of people, it’s important to take pawsitive action towards supporting and uplifting them. A great way to start is by educating yourself and seeking out LGBTQ+ resources and organizations for guidance.

Don’t know where to start? I’ll give you some sites, but I’d be purr-illed if you’d follow me & my human:

I would really appreciate your support, as I am a small business. I have to keep an eye on those other ally cats – Kia Maria & Pikachu Lou – too, because they will post and get there paws on everything if I am not watching closely!

Ally Cat Pride - Be The Hue of You Facebook Group
Ally Cat Pride – Be The Hue of You Facebook Group

How to be an LGBTQ+ Ally: 6 accounts to follow on Instagram

Are you looking to learn some awesome stuff and follow some pretty incredible people, but have no idea who you should follow? Here is a list of 6 Instagram accounts to follow to start you off in the best way possible:


Michael Brown is my absolute FAVORITE person to follow! His quick, hilarious life lessons videos are brain candy! I can’t get enough of him being his fabulous, flaming self!

Blair Imani:

Her microlearning series, “Smarter in Seconds,” on Instagram reels presents complex political, social, and economic issues in a simple, less-than-a-minute video format. 

Schuyler Bailar

Schuyler Bailar (he/him), popularly known as @pinkmantaray is a trans man, activist, and educator. His infographics break down LGBTQ+ issues in an easily understandable manner.


Jenna (she/they) is a bisexuality advocate and illustrator known on Instagram as @j.teacake. Their illustrations are focused on countering bi-erasure and bi-phobia, and are dedicated to bisexual-plus positivity.

Az Franco

Az Franco (he/him) is a transmasculine, genderqueer writer, educator, artist, and model. You can find him @youcancallmeaz.

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Az Franco (@youcancallmeaz) • Instagram photos and videos

Brianna Viera

Brianna Vieira (they/she) is a graphic designer whose graphics are focused on breaking the stigma on various topics including LGBTQ+ issues, sobriety, and mental health issues.

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Ally Cat Pride: Quirky cats, humor, quotes, & pride products! (@allycatpride) • Instagram photos and videos


Quirky cats, humor, quotes, and subtle pride products! Learn how to be an LGBTQ+ ally and awesome friend. Figure out the lingo, and laugh every day! Page run by Allie the Ally Cat and her accomplices: Kia Maria and Pikachu Lou!

How to be an LGBTQ+ Ally: Engage with the LGBTQ+ Community

Put on Your Supporter Cat Ears: Showing support is like being the loudest purrer in the Ally Cat Crew. It’s not just about meows; it’s about paw-some action. Ready to pounce in? Here’s your catch-the-mouse playbook for engaging with the LGBTQ+ community:

  • Paw-rade Extravaganza: Dust off your glittery fur, join the paw-rade, and dance like no one’s watching. Pride events are the heartbeat of the community – show up, be seen, and spread those good vibes.
  • Volunteer Power: Roll up your furry sleeves and dive into the world of LGBTQ+ organizations. Whether it’s handing out flyers or organizing events, your time is a priceless gift that says, “I’m here, and I care.”
  • Be a Social Butterfly: Be a Social Butterfly: Follow LGBTQ+ influencers, organizations, and events on social media. It’s like joining the virtual party – share, like, and amplify those voices. Your clicks matter.
  • Listen and Learn: Attend talks, panels, and discussions. Engage with the stories and experiences of the LGBTQ+ community. It’s not just about being present; it’s about actively listening and learning.

By showing up and participating, you’re not just a bystander – you’re a vital part of the movement promoting inclusivity. So, wiggle your butt and get ready to pounce into action!

do You Find LGBTQ+ people intimidating?

Not ready to engage with queer folks yet? How about starting by donating to your local Pride Center? Don’t have one in your area? There is always my favorite cause for paws: The Trevor Project. The Trevor Project is dedicated to preventing suicide in LGBTQ+ youth. It is a devastatingly frequent choice many LGBTQ+ kids make because they can’t face their families – or themselves.

Many suffer from religious trauma from so-called “Christians”. This has to stop. Please help in any way that you can. If every reader donated even a single dollar, it would make a HUGE impact. I don’t ask my readers to do much past following me, but this is near and dear to my heart.

If you donate and send me a photo of your receipt, I will give you a choice of a $5 coupon or 25% discount for Ally Cat Pride. Email me at with the subject line: Trevor Project Donation. In the email body, indicate which discount – Thank you!

Donate to The Trevor Project and get your choice of: $5 coupon or 25% discount for use at Ally Cat Pride Etsy shop. Email receipt and choice to:
Please Help Stop Teen Suicide!!

How to be an LGBTQ+ Ally: Speak Up Against Discrimination

Hiss-tory in the Making: If discrimination or derogatory language against LGBTQ+ individuals dares to slink into our space, I won’t be having any of it. I’m gearing up in my verbal cape, ready to be the superhero who says, “Not today!” Here’s the kitty-cool script for being the advocate our furry friends and allies need:

  • Speak Up, Speak Loud: When you catch discrimination trying to tip-toe away like a sneaky mouse, let your voice roar. Your words are the purr-fect antidote to silence.
  • Call Out the Play: Name that oppressive behavior like a commentator cat with a tail on fire! Shine a spotlight on it, so there’s no room for ignorance to hide in the shadows.
  • Educate Like a Pro: Share the purr-spective of respect and acceptance. Educate others on the importance of treating everyone with kindness. It’s like a crash course in humanity, with extra catnip.
  • Lead by Example: Be the change you want to see. Strut your stuff and show through your actions that respect is non-negotiable. It’s not just about talking the talk; it’s about cat-walking the walk.

Discrimination and derogatory language? Not on our turf. It’s time to stand tall, speak up, and be the force that sweeps intolerance off its paws. Ready for some activism with a side of cat-titude? Let’s roll! 🌈🐾 #SpeakUpSpeakOut #StopHate

How to be an LGBTQ+ Ally: Show Personal Support to LGBTQ+ People

Paw-some Friendship Wisdom: When it comes to supporting my LGBTQ+ paw pals in our furry galaxy, it’s not a cosmic mystery – it’s about being there, lending an ear, and showing I’ve got their back.

Here’s the kitty-kool guide to being an A+ friend:

  • Listen: Sometimes, a purr-fectly tuned ear is worth more than a stash of catnip. Hear their tales, struggles, and triumphs. It’s about creating a space where their voice takes the spotlight.
  • Assist, Don’t Assume: Offer help when needed, but remember, not all heroes wear collars. Sometimes, it’s the little things – a comforting chat or a helping paw – that leave the biggest pawprint
  • Unique Challenges, Real Support: Understand that LGBTQ+ individuals face unique challenges. Let your empathy be a superhero cape – wrap it around them, letting them know they’re not navigating those challenges alone.

Celebrate their victories, stand strong during challenges, and let our shared space be a sanctuary of understanding. Support isn’t just a word; it’s an action. So, gear up with your empathy cape, and together, let’s be friends who turn challenges into pawdust. 🌈🐾

Embrace Diversity and Foster Love
Embrace Diversity and Foster Love

How to be an LGBTQ+ Ally: Utilize LGBTQ+ Resources

Embark on the Ally Cat Adventure: Becoming a paws-itively great ally is like finding your favorite catnip mouse under the couch. Guess what? I’ve got the purr-fect treasure map to help you navigate through LGBTQ+ organizations, support groups, and online forums – your whiskered guide to cat allyship awesomeness. Here’s how to embark on this educational kitty quest:

Useful Resources for Becoming an Ally
GLAAD: Provides resources and media to promote understanding and acceptance of the LGBTQ+ community.
PFLAG: Offers support and resources for LGBTQ+ individuals and their families.
The Trevor Project: Provides crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to LGBTQ+ youth.
Lambda Legal: Offers legal services and advocacy for LGBTQ+ individuals and their families.
Popular LGBTQ Blog Writers and Their Blogs: A long list of LGBTQ+ bloggers and their sites.
LGBTQ+ Resources

Remember, becoming an ally is an ongoing process requiring a commitment to action and engagement. By supporting the LGBTQ+ community, you can help create a more inclusive and supportive society for all. Even if we are all cats of a different color, we can come together like a rainbow!

Embracing Differences and Empowering LGBTQ+ Individuals

Empower, Represent, Celebrate: Transforming society into a haven of LGBTQ+ acceptance is a journey of empowerment, representation, and celebration. Let’s break it down into the ABCDEs of inclusivity:

A – Amplify Purr-esentation: In the realm of sunbeams and cardboard castles – the media and entertainment realm – let LGBTQ+ cats & characters take the stage. Diverse storylines in mewvies aren’t just plot twists; they’re bridges to acceptance and understanding. Visibility matters and representation is the key to feeling seen, heard, and validated.

B – Build Safe Spaces: Community nap spots aren’t just cozy corners; they’re havens of support and belonging. They’re the places where shared purr-sonal experiences become the glue that binds, turning loneliness into a distant memory. Community support is the ultimate in kitty treats for surviving the chaos in this world. Every kitty deserves a safe space, filled with the comforting hum of purrs.

C – Celebrate Diversity: Embrace the rainbow of fur patterns within our feline society. Each cat is a unique pawprint on the canvas of kitty diversity. By recognizing and chirruping these differences, we create a masterpiece of acceptance and value, just like the colorful array of toys in my collection.

D – Distance From Toxicity: Distance from toxicity, the superhero move we all need! In the cat-alphabet of empawerment, ‘D’ stands for creating a buffer zone against negativity, like when I gracefully swat away bothersome insects.

E – Embrace Differences: It is also essential to embrace differences and promote diversity within our fur-tastic society. By celebrating differences and recognizing the value that each cat brings, we can create a more inclusive and accepting community. Embracing diversity like huge kitty hugs allows cats to feel accepted and valued, promoting a sense of empowerment and self-confidence in every graceful pawstep. 🐾🌈 #LoveisLoveisLove #happinessquotes

In our “Ally Cats” musical, let’s create a world where everyone feels accepted, valued, and ready to shine in their authentic colors. That’s why Ally Cat Pride’s slogan is “Be The Hue of You”!

Advocacy for LGBTQ+ Rights and Social Justice

Championing LGBTQ+ rights is like sharpening your claws on the fabric of justice, ensuring a society that’s as fair as a sunbeam on my favorite napping spot. Amidst challenges like closed doors and elusive laser dots, advocacy emerges as a superhero, tackling issues like discrimination, marginalization, and violence with the ferocity of a well-aimed pounce.

I meant it when I told you to start wiggling your butt to get into pouncing practice! You don’t want to end up starring in #CatFails! If you need a good giggle, though, here are some viral cat fails for you!


this is the most funny cat video 🤣

♬ original sound – diamondarmor30

By letting out a roar or a well-timed meow, we pave the way for equality and justice, ensuring that every furball – and human – can thrive in a world free from prejudice and discrimination. It’s a cause worth purring for, a quest to create safe spaces. #SafeSpaces

Understanding Intersectionality

Intersectionality: The Marvel of Multiple Identities

Picture it like a web, where race, gender, sexuality, and socioeconomic status intertwine – that’s intersectionality. To truly grasp the kaleidoscope of LGBTQ+ experiences, we need to navigate this intricate network.

It’s not just about understanding one aspect; it’s recognizing the intersection of identities that shape each individual’s journey. Think of it as a compass guiding us through the nuanced struggles of discrimination and inequality. It’s not a puzzle to solve but a landscape to appreciate, where every identity adds a unique hue to the masterpiece of human existence. Hey, I love that line! Words are so much fun!

The Role of Social Justice in LGBTQ+ Advocacy

Embarking on LGBTQ+ rights is like discovering a hidden nook where sunbeams meet curiosity – they’re like two playful kittens in a yarn-filled room. Social justice isn’t just a toolbox; it’s the wizard’s wand that tackles the big issues causing inequality, turning them into fluttering butterflies of change.

When we champion social justice, we’re on a grand quest to build a world where LGBTQ+ folks not only get the respect they deserve but where every tail wags in harmony, and dignity becomes the default setting like a heated blanket on a winter day. (I love my bed in front of the heating vent, too!)

It’s not just advocacy; it’s the harmonious purring of a society that stands tall on the cat trees of fairness, where every whisker is acknowledged, and respect becomes the language we all speak. 🌈🐾 #pawsitivevibesonly #FelineFriend

“Social justice cannot be attained while a single soul is singled out for unfair treatment and discrimination.”  

Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

“Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.”

Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

Social Responsibility for Inclusivity and LGBTQ+ Community Support

In the enchanted realm of whiskers and pawprints, it’s our duty to sprinkle a bit of magic for our LGBTQ+ companions. Social responsibility for a cat isn’t just about chasing shadows; it’s the secret purr-otion we concoct to create a cozy and welcoming space, where every furball, regardless of their magical whiskers or preferences, feels at home.

One delightful way to cast our support is by joining LGBTQ+ events – a bit like a catnip-filled adventure. These occasions serve as portals for connections, allowing us to unite with the community and showcase our solidarity. Volunteering with LGBTQ+ organizations or contributing to causes is like sharing our secret stash of catnip, making a truly enchanting impact.

Equally important is the magic of education, illuminating the minds of other humans about LGBTQ+ issues and experiences. Whether through mystical scrolls of social media, conversations with the human family, or by sprinkling knowledge like a cat shedding fur, we can enhance understanding and nurture an environment of acceptance

.Beyond the enchanted scratching post, businesses and organizations can wield their magical wands to support LGBTQ+ individuals. Implementing inclusive policies and practices, such as healthcare benefits covering magical transformations, providing gender-neutral litter boxes, and casting a zero-tolerance spell against discrimination, crafts an atmosphere where every whisker feels embraced.

In the end, promoting social responsibility for inclusivity and supporting the LGBTQ+ community is like leaving a trail of magical pawprints on our collective adventure. By casting spells of action and working together, we can mold a more inclusive and accepting world – a realm where every being, human or feline, dances under the same enchanted moon. 🌟🐾

Looking for more? I don’t have much in this category yet, but I have a ton planned! For now, check out Happy Birthday, Dolly! 93 Quotes You Will Love and 12 Days of Christmas and Cats if you want LGBTQ+ content! Thanks for reading!

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